I found this tool kind of neat! Click on this link and do the quiz to see how "Relationship Ready" you are. Is it perfect? No. Of course not, but it will give you some things to think about.
What did you score? If you're honest with yourself as you take it, I am confident you'll find some things to pray about and work on! I actually scored pretty high. Higher than I expected. LOL
Blessings!