The (False) Gospel of Singleness

I am kind of betwixt on all the talk about celibacy and abstinence among Christians. One the one hand, I get it. I really do. I know that the Bible teaches to flee sexual sin. That we must do. On the other hand, we're generally aiming the message at people who are in the most sexually-charged, hormone-flooded, biological clock ticking years of their lives. When you add to the discussion that many of the same people will go on and on about...

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I Bet Boaz Had a Beer Belly

"He needs to be light-skinned or bi-racial so my daughters can have good hair." "He needs to be tall so I can wear high heels all the time. At least 6'2"." "He needs to be a professional athlete because they make a lot of money and I don't want to work." "I refuse to sign a pre-nup. If things go bad, I want half. I'll work if he wants me to, but not at a job that makes a lot of money." "I'm going to live in New York. So he's got to be fine...

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