"The (Forgotten) Proverbs 31 Man"

In Christian circles, so much is said about the "Proverbs 31" woman without actually reading and studying the passage.  I can appreciate all the T-shirts, organizations and "Proverbs 31" posters that we Christians like to sell and buy, but every now and then we've got to get back to the basics of the scripture and what it teaches. Here's one basic: as we see in verse two from Solomon's most well-known passage: the Proverbs were written by...

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Is Dating REALLY a Waste of Time?

I referenced this concept before in my previous blog that went over like a lead balloon. My goal with this blog is simple today - I DON'T WANT YOU TO MAKE IT ANOTHER BLOCKBUSTER...ooops...Redbox NIGHT!!!   I WANT YOU TO GO SOMEWHERE, WITH SOMEBODY, SOME TIME.  PLEASE!!!??? You will not shrivel up and die if you walk inside a Chili's with a member of the opposite sex. You have not forfeited your kingdom inheritance if you go to coffee...

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"How Can I Learn to Trust Again?"

I am often asked to respond to people telling me they've been let down, hurt, devastated and don't know how to trust people again.  I get that.  I have been betrayed and stabbed in the back myself...my back looks like a dart board by this point.  However, we can't allow ourselves to live in that place.  We have to move on if we're going to do and get all God has called us to be and have. Along those lines, here are three keys I'd like you to understand and internalize: (1) Actions are individual (2) People are people (3)...

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